Life is Like Hot Chocolate

coffee-mugs.jpgI don’t usually read email forwards, but this one from my friend Megan Dyson was short enough to skim.  It caught my attention and I read it two, three, then four times.  I hope you enjoy it as much as I did, what a blessing!

A group of graduates, well established in their careers, were talking at a reunion and decided to go visit their old university professor, now retired. During their visit, the conversation turned to complaints about stress in their work and lives.

Offering his guests hot chocolate, the professor went into the kitchen and returned with a large pot of hot chocolate and an assortment of cups – porcelain, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some expensive, some exquisite — telling them to help themselves to the hot chocolate.

When they all had a cup of hot chocolate in hand, the professor said: “Notice that all the nice looking expensive cups were taken, leaving behind the plain and cheap ones. While it is normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress. The cup that you’re drinking from adds nothing to the quality of the hot chocolate. In most cases it is just more expensive and in some cases even hides what we drink. What all of you really wanted was hot chocolate, not the cup; but you consciously went for the best cups… And then you began eyeing each other’s cups.

Now consider this: Life is the hot chocolate; your job, money and position in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold and contain life. The cup you have does not define, nor change the quality of life you have. Sometimes, by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the hot chocolate God has provided us. God makes the hot chocolate, man chooses the cups. The happiest people don’t have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything that they have.

Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly… and enjoy your hot chocolate.

How will YOU enjoy the hot chocolate?

Sunday Stroll

We may walk a bit longer today since last weekend…well we won’t rehash technical difficulties :)

P is for Positive Intent – Patti says (among other insightful things)

This isn’t about being a pollyanna and unrealistic. It’s about eliminating opportunities for anger in your life – and sometimes it’s about opening the door for dialogue. If I start from a blaming place: “How could he do this?” “She’s out to get me,” then there’s no place for us to go from there.

Taking the tree down: Getting rid of the DeadwoodDavid Zinger at Slacker Manager ain’t talking about your Christmas tree either

Brad Isaac gets a twofer

2008 Will be Dramatically Different at SuccessCREEations – Chris Cree makes his long awaited, greatly anticipated, very exciting announcement.

The Todd Kaufman Problem is Your Problem TooBrian Brady knocks one out of the park in the first two sentences.

The Long Trails

LOL Cat Fave of the Day

funny pictures

A House Divided

The 2008 Sugar Bowl was played on New Years Day. My Dawgs were there. So were my Hawaii Warriors. It was a tough game day at Dad’s house.

Get the story on this picture at Joyful Jubilant Learning

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While the house was divided, the game was not. And while we are Dawgs through and through, our love for the Warriors, their traditions and the Haka (or their redesigned Ha’a) is still strong in our hearts. This is for you, Dad. Love you!

We’re up…I think

The holidays were amazing!
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  • My sister had my niece 7 weeks early. All are fine, but Phylisa is still in the hospital. She should come home soon. Ain’t she pretty!
  • Both of my babies decided to get matching pairs of double ear infections.
  • Babies also decided to get mommy and daddy sick too.
  • My website crashed – hard

Notice that none of these situations were ones I could control. We all know how much I love that (insert sarcasm here).

At any rate, I think we are all back up and running. I had to reload some of the comments that I still had on file. However, some of them between December 21st and now are gone forever. It could be worse – yesterday, they were ALL gone. However, there was a great conversation going on about the education video posted. That’s gone. That’s disappointing.

I do know that I am not the only one. Kris Berg had the same issue. I feel your pain honey!

I also know that once again, the phenom Chris Cree showed up and showed out. I didn’t even have to ask for help – he offered. Then he held class and educated all of us. There is great information here…go check it out!

So, onward and upward…and if we could continue brainstorming about that education video, that would be great!

 *Update – guess what I found in my email…some of the comments for the video post!!  I am re inputing them  now!!

Not yet ready to return to our regularly scheduled programming

So, the idea was that I would lay low for the holidays. It was the holidays, after all. Add to that some sick kids and a cold myself, seemed like the perfect time for some time off. Then, when the New Year rang in, so would I. Back to work and back to the web.

Then my website went crazy. Serve fell down and skinned it’s knee, email took a vacation, and the “Cannot connect to this site” was my front page. BlueHost worked on it and it should’ve been good to go. Except, all the comments on My Beautiful Chaos are gone. All of them. Now, BlueHost can see them – they are in the database. That’s promising. But…

  • I haven’t changed anything on the backend of the blog
  • I use the same theme here as I do on Making Life Work for You and there aren’t these problems over there
  • I tried to use a default theme and I deactivated all the plugins…same problems.
  • I am running an older version of WordPress and I am scared to death to update it. I don’t think my theme supports the new version and I really don’t want to change my theme. Maybe I will have to bite the bullet

At any rate…please forgive the mess while I abuse my friendship with Chris Cree and he helps me figure this out. If you have any suggestions, the new comments still work, please feel free to leave them.

BTW – Happy New Year and GO DAWGS!